Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Unschooling



I have been inspired by some of my friends to begin exploring the idea of unschooling and autonomy for our children. It is truly mindblowing. Just what I needed right now. Bowie is on explode lately: he is learning SO much in so many areas, he is really feeling powerful with skills for independence. I've parented gently and lovingly and responsively all along (imperfectly to be sure, but almost always accessing those motivations) and philosphically was aligned with unschooling but hadn't really delved into it. But in just a couple of weeks, I can feel it hugely impacting my relationship with Bowie and confidence in this path we have chosen. Confidence in Bowie. It feels so good to be in this place.

Few things feel more right to me in the world than this...

This is quoted from this site:
http://sandradodd.com/beginning

"Parent's job (since it isn't the controller of the child) is something like being the Provider of Joy. When in doubt, go for the option that offers the most joy."

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